
Just started to doze off after a long day that i had today....After all the travel I did from JAX to my school and the nightmare exam I had, I really felt like having a nice Siesta...just then this thought struck my mind...that its about to be an year that i first met 'the bliss of my life'....Unbelievable!
Its many a gals dream..That they wud find a sum1 they hav been dreaming of...he wud show up just like that..Suddenly there would be a cold breeze, the skies get dark; There is lightning n thunder followed by rain....etc etc and its at that moment that u realize that he is the 'One'...The partner of ur dreams...N he also feels the same for u....something like that (similar to what happens in movies)....
Few might be luky if they cud find this really happening....But that usually dosent...atleast in a typical Indian scenario! So its like....R parents find their 'sum1' whom they find suitable to get us married to n we start an altogether new life with some 'Anonymous' guy, whom we might hav probably spoken a few times n just tried to find out if he 'smokes' or 'drinks' and his so called' hobbies', his fav 'heroine' blah blah! This is the 'Arranged marriage' scenario....
Donno why but I had always been inclined to getting an arranged marraige while most of my frens in college favoured Love...probably i believed in my parents than i believed myself...Or may b- I felt there is a lot of excitement in this arranged marriage system...Its like this: u shud start from the scratch- getting to know ur 'sum1', understand, adjust, get along ( it includes cooking, cleaning and household chores...the less exciting things) etc and at the same time fulfill ur dreams n aspirations (if u hav sum!)....Its like a roller coaster ride....Much more fun and thrill than the 'Love types' where u know the guy for 5,6,7 yrs...get used to him...spend much of the time together already n so on....
U mit doubt if this fellow wud support,help n understand U n Ur feelings, lets u remain the same 'U' n all-getting emotional am I???? Chill....Don't panic or go crazy when its time to share ur life with sum X....Frankly, I have had all of this in my mind when it was my turn....BUT, believe me its going to be great n u wud njoy every bit of it...I say this from my almost an yrs experience.
If it were not for the arranged marriage, I cud never have found sum1 who shares the same thoughts, likes and dislikes as mine .... who holds up as my bestest fren n all that follow (philosopher, guide etc etc)...Who understands n cares so dearly....I hav had the most wonderful times of my life...N now I am toooo happy to have made this choice....(Shudnt tell this to chandu..It wud b hard to get him down from the cloud 9..;P).....
So all the GYAN that i can give after my experience is....I believe that 'nice Gals get nice Guys' and since all gals r immensely gud its proved that we obviously wud get sum decently good guy....;)
So dearies.....Buckle up and 'Go Gators'
Its hard to forget my collage slogan ;P